For one I’ve been there 4-5 times?

Secondly, times are awkward and I’d have to fly a heck of a lot back and forth.

Thirdly, which makes it £££

Fourthly, there’ll be a trip next year and I;m making everyone vote Sweden baby ! keke

& Fifthly, if I went it would be less time with friends and family back home. ie less hubby time.